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Meet Your Coach, Denny

denny@upgradeyourintimacy.com

  • Kink and BDSM Knowledgeable   
    - With a specialty in helping couples navigate

    • Pegging and prostate play

    • Impact play

    • Sensory play

  • Sexuality Exploration Knowledgeable

    • A safe, supportive space for those questioning
      or curious about their sexual identity

  • LGBTQ+ knowledgeable

  • Wiccan/Pagan knowledgeable

  • Long term relationship knowledgeable
     

  • Poly aware

  • Transgender aware

  • Gender Non-conforming aware​

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Member of the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Councilors, and Therapists (AASECT)

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Currently enrolled in the Sexual Health Alliance's Sex and Relationship Coach Certification program.

Hi, I’m Denny! 

 

I’m passionate about helping people find more sexual yum in their lives: more pleasure, more confidence, more connection, and more “ohhh… that’s what I’ve been missing.”

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I’ve learned (personally and professionally) that intimacy isn’t something you “figure out” once and then coast on forever. It evolves. And when it gets stale, stuck, or predictable, you’re not broken... you’re human.​
 

If you feel like you’re in a rut or bored, you don’t have to stay there. Great sex isn’t reserved for the lucky or the naturally adventurous. It’s learnable, customizable, and allowed to change over time.

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While I am not a therapist, my approach resembles talk therapy. My style blends a touch of practical sex education, coaching tools that work in real life, a no-judgment space where you can talk openly without shame, pressure, or awkwardness and a dose of good old fun!  We’ll get curious about what you want, what turns you on, what gets in the way, and how to make pleasure feel easier and more consistent, all on your terms.  

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And as a little personal context: I’m in my late 50s, and have been married for 25 years, so I understand how sex can shift with age... desire, arousal, confidence, bodies, hormones, life stress, all of it. The goal isn’t to “go back” to how things used to be. It’s to build what works now, and make it genuinely satisfying.
 

Because “fine” is… fine. But you deserve "OMG... That was fantastic!"

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